I love doing relationship work. ANY AND ALL. If you’ve got a relationship that could use some <major or minor> improvement, I want to help because life is too short to not be very f*cking happy in the connections we have chosen for ourselves.
Healthy, nonviolent communication is my heart’s work. I am positive I can help you do it better. It may not magically heal your relationship, but it absolutely helps to be able to communicate clearly and effectively with each other. I’m trained as a mediator so I’m particularly skilled at identifying win/wins and proposing compromises that don’t “cost” anyone too much.
My core belief about relationships: all relationships have their own culture. If everyone in the relationship would say they are “happy,” then whatever you are doing or not doing in that relationship is “normal.” Part of what trips people up is when they feel like they’re “supposed” to do things a certain way…but what if that usual way doesn’t work for you? Let’s figure out the most authentic expression of this relationship. The goal is to <get and stay> happy and have things be generally peaceful. So whether you’re fighting a lot or you just want to get ahead of future issues, I can help.