My core belief about relationships: all relationships have their own culture. If everyone in the relationship would say they are happy and satisfied, then whatever you are doing or not doing in that relationship is “normal.” But if you are not satisfied, that means there is room for improvement. That’s where I come in.
Healthy, nonviolent communication is my heart’s work. I am positive I can help you do it better.* Doing the work may not magically heal your relationship, but it absolutely helps to be able to communicate clearly and effectively with each other. I’m trained as a mediator, so I’m particularly skilled at identifying win/wins and proposing compromises that don’t “cost” anyone too much.
Here are some examples of things we might cover:
- Communication
- Conflict resolution
- Premarital negotiations
- Sex (disconnects in drive, interest, style)
- Ethical non-monogamy or polyamory (early or continuing)
- Lifestyle/swinger dynamics
- Interracial relationship dynamics
- Empty nest
- Separation + Divorce
- Rebuilding trust
- New parent challenges
*Please note: If you’d rather see Rodney as your relationship coach, you’re welcome to schedule with him via our main calendar. If you’d like to see us both together, we’d love that. Please contact me to work that out.
